When you’ve fallen in “Love at first sight”..Posted by: sharen sia in relationship
Accordingly to Wikipedia, Love at first sight is an emotional condition whereby a person feels romantic attraction for a stranger on the first encounter with the stranger. The term may be used to refer to a mere sexual attached or crush, but it usually refers to actually falling in love with someone literally the very first time one sees him or her, along with the deep desire to have an intimate relationship with that person. The stranger may or may not be aware that the other person has any such notion.
You’ve fallen in love when:
#1: You miss every moment with her, virtually every sentences from her. Your life stops and all you can think of is her. You don’t seem to get anything done and every moment your sweetheart’s face comes in front of you.
#2: She is the angel from Heaven. Your sweetheart is flawless. You overlook all her faults and weaknesses. You believe true love can overcome all. This is love at first sight.
#3: You start missing your love like you haven’t seen her in ages, when actually you just said goodbye.
#4: You are happy and joyfull and can’t stop smilling when she is around. You become sad and depressed as soon as she leaves.
#5: You are not a very comprising person but your sweetheart changed you completely. Now you are more comprising and a wonderfully understanding person.
Psychologists say that love at first sight depends on our psychological state at the moment. It takes about 30 seconds to fall in love or precisely speaking to estimate whether the person is worth to fall in love with. By the way psychologists claim that men fall in love first. When you fall in love at the first sight you are usually ready and willing to fall in love. Of cause the main part in falling in love is given to the appearance, voice, gestures, smell. Men are searching their partner to complete the criteria such as to fill up all the necessary categories like “tall, blond, blue-eyed, looks good, has a style and nice manners”.
However, some theories actually suggested that we fall in love not from the first sight but from the first smell. We pay much attention to what our eyes and ears tell us but on the subconscious level the way the person smells play a very big part in his or her expression on us although we don’t recognize it.
LOVE at first sight is very much true! Just remember: love has it’s ups and downs and do embrace the love wings.
8ways to survive Long-Distance Relationship??Posted by: sharen sia in relationship
Wonder how to stay close while are thousand miles apart? Here are the ways..
#1: Trust
No one should and can control another person, knowing their loved one is so far away, and nobody likes to be controlling. Mutual trust is established when there is no feeling of insecurity, suspicion and impulses that would bring the relationship down. Trust is much tougher considering when are aparted, but its the most important element to maintain a healthy relationship.
#2: Communication
Applicable to every sort of relationship, friendship and kinship. Do make your loved knows what you’ve been doing and thinking by using the conventional type to the techie way such as phone calls, emails, MSN, Skype, IMVU etc.. Send her a cute sms or email once a week is enough to chill her day up…
#3: Be Patient
Do spend time listen to your loved one, be there for her whenever she needs you, be her hero and the man of her world. Learn to be patient, showing her that you value the relationship and willingly to work patiently to bloom the relationship and even some sacrifices. There’s no free lunch in this world!!!
#4: Be honest
Honesty is the path to intimacy, be honest to your feeling, speak out your thoughts, feelings, needs, wants, problems. Learning to reduce the boundaries of a relationship and be willingly to share about everything.
#5: Give freedom
to your partner! More time with your friends, family and also jobs! Have some quality time alone, doing things that you like and indulgence the most. Most importantly, being aparted gives you a chance to maintain your own identity, somethings that can get lost when couples spend all of their free time together.
#6: Be Creative
Be more interactive to the relationship, take initiative to send a creative photo calender, a drawing of each other in the unforgettable scene, and might be able to see the relationship growing. Additional example, a workout t-shirt with your perfume…
#7: Talk about marriage and future
If you think you are in a stable relationship, discussing how you are going to get to that point will help to prove to your loved one that the relationship is appreciated and all the efforts have been made to grow it positively. Bear in mind, say it for the sake of say it and from the bottom of your heart, Women are sensitive and we can feel your heart!!
#8: Call it off
Knowing when to say goodbye. When communication is one-sided and shows no new reformation of sparks, when arguments are more frequent than healthy communication (of course you had tried the best to solve the problems). These are the signs and symptom that a healthy blossoming relationship is impossible to achieve.
Key message: When absence makes the heart fonder!!
I think it’s applicable with the right methods, right timing and of course the right person
